I’m in an arranged marriage, but I really love my husband. We even have a child. Today my in-laws invited us. My husband disappeared for some time, so I went looking for him. I saw him talking to his parents and crying.
He didn’t see me. I stood behind the doorway, barely breathing. His shoulders were shaking, and I heard his mother softly say, “It’s okay, beta. You did the right thing. Some truths don’t need to come out.”
I should’ve walked away. I should’ve respected his privacy. But something in her voice… I don’t know. It wasn’t comforting. It sounded rehearsed.
He said, “But she deserves to know. I can’t keep lying to her.”
And that’s when my heart dropped.
I stepped back quietly, pretending I hadn’t heard anything. When he came out a few minutes later, his eyes were red. I didn’t say a word. I smiled and acted normal for the rest of the evening, even though my stomach was in knots.
Later that night, back at home, I couldn’t sleep. I kept replaying his words—she deserves to know—over and over. What didn’t I know? Was he sick? Was there another woman? Was it something about our son?
The next morning, I told him I was taking our three-year-old, Aarav, to the park. I needed space to think, to breathe. He nodded, but I saw hesitation flicker across his face.
At the park, I sat on the bench while Aarav played in the sand. I thought back to everything—our first awkward months, how slowly we grew comfortable with each other, the way he held my hand during labor, how he made tea exactly how I liked it.
It didn’t feel like a man living a lie.
But now I wasn’t sure.
I went home and told him, “We need to talk.”
He didn’t resist. He sat down, head low, like he already knew what was coming.
I told him what I heard. His eyes widened, and for a second, I thought he might deny it.
But he didn’t.
He looked up and said, “You weren’t supposed to hear that.”
I asked him, “What weren’t you supposed to tell me?”
He took a deep breath, then started talking. “Before our marriage… there was someone else. A woman named Sharanya. We were in love. I wanted to marry her.”
My heart clenched, but I let him finish.
“She was from a different caste. My parents said they’d disown me. I fought, for over a year. I even left home for a while. But eventually, she left. Said she couldn’t take the drama anymore.”
He looked up at me. “I agreed to the arranged marriage only after she walked away.”
I sat still. Numb. I’d always known our start wasn’t romantic, but I thought it was clean. Mutual.
“So… you settled for me?” I asked.
“No,” he said quickly. “I didn’t know what to expect. But after we married, I started seeing you. Not the woman my parents picked. You’re kind, you’re smart, and you love me with no conditions. I fell in love with you.”
I believed him. I could see it in the way his voice broke.
But that wasn’t the part that haunted me. It was what he said to his parents now. Not about the past. Something current. A lie he was still keeping.
“So what don’t I know now?” I asked.
He hesitated. Then closed his eyes. “Sharanya’s back. She reached out last month. Said she never stopped loving me. She’s divorced now.”
The air felt like it vanished from the room.
“I haven’t seen her,” he added quickly. “I told her I’m married and happy. But I didn’t tell you. Because I thought… maybe a part of me still needed to close that chapter fully.”
I stood up. “So you hid it from me?”
“I wanted to protect what we have,” he said. “But I was wrong. I should’ve told you the second she reached out.”
I didn’t know what to say. I walked into the bedroom, shut the door, and cried until I couldn’t anymore.
For the next two days, I barely spoke to him. We co-existed—took turns with Aarav, made food, cleaned the house. But emotionally, I shut down.
On the third day, a letter arrived. No return name. Just my name, written carefully.
I opened it and froze.
It was from Sharanya.
“I know this is unorthodox,” it began, “but I need to tell you something woman to woman…”
She told me that she had no intention of breaking us up. She had reached out because she was struggling—mentally, emotionally—and wanted closure. She apologized if she’d disrupted our peace.
Then came the twist.
She said my husband, Arhaan, had once offered to leave everything for her. But she left him because she didn’t believe he could stand up to his family forever.
“I didn’t trust his strength. But I see now—I was wrong. He did build a life. He did stay. I just hope you both realize what you have.”
There was no bitterness in her words. No plea to take him back. Just the remnants of a woman mourning a past life.
I cried again—this time for her.
That night, I showed Arhaan the letter. He read it silently, then said, “I didn’t know she’d written to you.”
I believed him.
He said, “I was ready to tell you everything that day. But I was scared I’d lose you.”
I said, “I almost walked away. Not because of Sharanya. But because you kept me in the dark.”
He nodded. “I get it. And I don’t deserve your forgiveness overnight. But I’m willing to earn it.”
I didn’t say anything. Just watched as he quietly went into the kitchen to make dinner, like always.
That night, after Aarav slept, I sat beside him on the couch.
“You’re not the man I thought I married,” I said.
He looked startled.
“You’re more. Flawed, yes. But also brave, in your own way.”
We didn’t hug. We didn’t kiss. But we sat there in silence. And somehow, that was enough.
Over the next few weeks, things weren’t perfect. Trust doesn’t bounce back like a rubber band. But I noticed the little things—how he never hid his phone, how he asked if I was okay ten times a day, how he started opening up more.
One night, I asked him, “If she came back ten years ago, would you have married her?”
He looked me straight in the eye. “Maybe. But then I would’ve missed out on this life. On you. On Aarav. I can’t imagine anything better than what I have now.”
And for the first time in weeks, I smiled without hesitation.
Months passed. We went to counseling. Not because we were falling apart, but because we wanted to rebuild intentionally.
Sharanya never contacted us again. Sometimes, I think of her. I hope she finds peace. I think she already has, honestly. Her letter felt like closure—for both of us.
One year after that whole episode, Arhaan planned a surprise dinner on our anniversary. Just the two of us. He handed me a small box. Inside was a simple gold pendant with three tiny charms—his initial, mine, and Aarav’s.
“I never really proposed,” he said. “So this is my way of asking… would you still choose me today?”
I looked at him, eyes glassy. “Yes. But next time, tell me everything. Even the ugly parts.”
He nodded. “Promise.”
We’re not a fairy tale. We’re better. We’re real.
What I’ve learned is this: honesty isn’t just about what you say. It’s about when you say it. It’s about trusting your partner enough to bring them into the storm, not just the sunshine.
And forgiveness? It doesn’t mean forgetting. It means choosing love, even when it’s complicated.
So yeah… I’m in an arranged marriage. But today, I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
If you’ve ever doubted love could grow from something unexpected—don’t. It can. And when it does, it’s worth fighting for.
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