My husband is a sailor.
The main purpose of my mother-in-law’s life is to catch me with another man while he is on a voyage. She follows me from time to time, makes surprise visits, etc. And then someone informed her I wasn’t alone at home. She breaks into the flat, runs into the bedroom and sees…
Me, in pajamas, eating pistachios in bed with my childhood best friend, Priya.
Not a man. Not anything remotely romantic. Just two women in our thirties, watching trashy TV and giggling like we were fourteen again. We looked up at her, stunned mid-laughter, as she froze like someone just hit her with a stun gun.
Priya was holding a handful of shells, mid-sentence about her latest disaster date with a Tinder guy named Manu who had shown up in Crocs and ordered milk at a bar. And there stood my mother-in-law, soaked from the rain, her hand still holding the spare key she wasn’t supposed to have.
No “hello.” No apology. Just, “Where is he?”
It took me a second.
“Where is WHO?”
She looked around the room like a drug dog at an airport.
“I know you’ve got someone here. Don’t play dumb.”
Priya snorted. “Is this the surprise party?”
Now here’s where it should’ve ended. Me being right. Her being wrong. The usual awkward silence, then storming out. Except this time, she didn’t leave. She sat down at the kitchen table and said something that made me drop the pistachio bowl:
“Someone saw a man leaving your building yesterday. Tall. In a cap.”
I laughed. “Okay? That could be anyone.”
She just shook her head and said, “He went into your building. And someone saw him on your floor.”
Now I was a little rattled. I hadn’t had any visitors. My doorbell didn’t even ring. And my building has those old floors where every footstep sounds like an earthquake. No way someone could sneak in and out without me noticing.
I shrugged it off. Told her to go home. Priya offered her a pistachio.
But I didn’t sleep well that night.
Over the next few days, I started noticing little things.
The soap in the bathroom moved places. A window cracked open I never opened. The toilet seat up, even though it’s just me. My husband, Kartik, was still weeks away from docking in Mumbai. So unless Priya was secretly a standing-up pee-er and burglar, something was off.
I called the building supervisor, Devansh, to ask if anyone had come into the flat for repairs.
He said no. But then he paused.
“You weren’t home last Thursday, right?”
“No, I was at the market. Why?”
“Some guy was loitering near your door. I asked him what he wanted. He said he was waiting for ‘Anandhi.’”
That’s me. No one calls me by my first name except family.
I asked what he looked like.
Devansh said, “Tall. Cap. Didn’t get a clear look. Left quickly when I pushed him.”
Now I was full-on paranoid. Was I being watched? Was this man someone from Kartik’s past? Or mine?
I told Kartik everything over the phone. He laughed at first, then got quiet.
“There’s no one who’d have reason to follow you,” he said. “Unless…”
“Unless what?”
“Unless it’s someone my mom hired.”
I froze.
“You think she hired someone to follow me?”
“She’s been obsessed with proving something. She thinks if she can find anything to make me leave you, she wins.”
This sounded insane. But… also exactly like something she’d do.
So I tested it.
I left the house at odd times. I walked down alleys. I sat in parks and looked around like I was in a spy movie. A few times, I thought I saw someone duck out of view. Once, a silver hatchback seemed to follow my rickshaw for too many blocks. But I couldn’t prove anything.
Until Priya had the idea.
“Let’s post a fake story.”
She made a burner Instagram account and uploaded a photo of us with a caption that read:
“When your bestie meets the real reason you’ve been glowing lately 👀💋 #newman #secretlovers #latevisits”
We geotagged my building.
And waited.
Two days later, someone tried to break into my flat.
The latch held. But there were scratches all over the lock, and the knob looked twisted. Devansh said he saw a man sprinting down the stairs, hoodie up.
I filed a police report. Not that it did much.
But the next morning, my mother-in-law showed up again.
This time, with a man I didn’t recognize.
“I want him to see for himself,” she said.
“Who is this?” I asked.
The man looked uncomfortable. “I’m… Rahul. I work for your husband’s family.”
She turned to him. “Tell her.”
And he did.
He confessed to following me. Taking pictures. Watching from a parked car. Being paid by my mother-in-law to “document” any men visiting the house.
Only he got too curious.
Started snooping beyond his assignment. That’s who tried to break in.
Priya recorded everything. And I filed a second police report—with her statement.
That finally got my husband involved.
He flew home three weeks early.
I expected fireworks. A family drama. Him yelling at his mother or siding with her. But Kartik did something else.
He went quiet. Cold.
He sat her down and said, “You’ve crossed a line. I’m cutting you off financially.”
That shook her.
She cried. Begged. Said it was “all for him.” That she only wanted to protect him. But he didn’t budge.
We didn’t talk to her for months.
Then, right before Diwali, she showed up.
This time, holding sweets. And an apology letter. Written in her wobbly handwriting, three pages long.
It wasn’t perfect. She didn’t say everything I wanted. But it was a start. She admitted to hiring Rahul. Admitted she was scared of “losing her son to another woman.” That her marriage had been lonely and bitter, and she projected all that on me.
I still didn’t trust her. But I could see she was trying.
We invited her in.
She looked around the flat like it had changed. Like maybe she had, too.
The biggest twist came two weeks later.
Devansh—the building supervisor—knocked on our door. He looked nervous.
“I didn’t want to say anything back then,” he said, “but that guy Rahul? He was asking about something else too.”
“What do you mean?” Kartik asked.
“He was asking if your flat had a safe.”
Now that hit us sideways.
We did have a small safe. Tucked in the bedroom closet. Inside were my grandmother’s gold bangles and a few documents.
Kartik ran to check. The documents were there.
But the bangles were gone.
And suddenly, everything clicked.
Rahul wasn’t just spying. He was casing the place. My mother-in-law hadn’t told him to break in—he’d taken her obsession and used it to plan a theft.
We reported him again. This time, for theft.
Turns out, he had a record. Small jobs. Petty theft. Nothing stuck. But this time, with the recorded confession and the police already aware, it was enough.
They found the bangles at a pawn shop two suburbs away.
We got them back.
And I did something I never thought I would:
I gave my mother-in-law one of the bangles.
She looked at me like I’d handed her a snake.
“Why?”
“Because you brought him into our lives. But you also gave me proof. And now, you get a symbol of both.”
She wore it every day after that.
I don’t know if we’ll ever be close. But now, at least, we see each other clearly.
She stopped the surprise visits.
I stopped assuming every knock was a threat.
And Kartik? He’s still at sea. Still sends me goofy selfies from cargo ships and ports in strange places.
But now, when he’s gone, I sleep fine.
Because I know the worst isn’t the ocean between us.
It’s the suspicion that once filled it.
And we crossed that storm, together.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: sometimes the people trying hardest to “protect” you are the ones doing the damage.
But when you face it head-on—with truth, not fear—what breaks can be rebuilt. Even if it takes time. Even if it takes loss.
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